I do wonder why so many women fake orgasm? Well, I understand that through pretending to get pleasure they want to make their boyfriends pleased, I know that they do not want to offend the partners and that they do not want their men to feel like being losers. I do understand their reasons, but I cannot understand only one thing - why they fake orgasm instead of achieving it?

I do know that not all women achieve orgasm in partner sex. There are various reasons for this situation, but usually women fake orgasm because men fake foreplay. Is this about you? Than why don't you speak with your boyfriend about this matter? Why don’t you let him know what you like, where your erogenous zones are, what you need to orgasm?

Some women cannot cum during intercourse as they achieve only clitoral orgasm. Well, than what about oral sex? What about female sex toys, various clitoral stimulators? Male sex toys can stimulate your clitoris too - did you hear of cock rings with attachments for clitoral stimulation. Do try one!

As well women often cannot orgasm because their partners ejaculate too early. Again this should not be a problem. First of all, the partners should apply to a physician and to do something about this matter. Secondly, there are plenty of sex toys which can help in this situation. These are cock rings which prolong intercourse, these can be dildos and vibrators which can be used either before or after the male partner ejaculates. If used before intercourse these sex toys can make a woman greatly aroused, thus she can orgasm after a few frictions. As well a dildo can be used if a man ejaculated before a woman achieved orgasm. Everything can be much simpler than you thought.

I do think that partners should be sincere with each other. Perhaps the most important thing is to trust your partner and to be sincere with him. Stop faking orgasm! Let your partner know how to please you. He wants to know it!

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